To Never Be Easily Defined Is at The Core of Your Fulfilment

It is easy to encourage others to be predictable, and you may also think that being predictable and easily defined is the best approach in your relationships and when aligning with others. However, being predictable and static in your thoughts and actions has its downsides.

To fully experience our lives, we have to fully explore any possibilities it provides us with. That includes stretching our minds and our potential to measures we may think we are incapable of.

The more defined and standard you are, the less you fully exploit the possibilities of life. Many people encourage others to be more predictable; they call it consistency. But in this context, the consistency they normally speak of is not ideal.

Some people want you to be one-dimensional so they can psychologically anticipate your next move for the purposes of their own benefit.

They may want you to be static and consistent in your thinking and actions so they can manipulate and exploit you to their advantage.

After all, where's the fun and thrill in thinking the same way I was five years ago?

Where's the growth in acting the same way I was ten years ago?

This is not an ideal way to fully experience the life you have been afforded. But others will encourage it, claiming you need to be "consistent".

To be easily defined can also be dangerous, for when you have foes that aim to deter you. But when you aren't, your foe will never know when and how to attack.

Many fail to be fulfilled because they have allowed themselves to be defined as a so-and-so, and therefore are confined to that description. They go around trying to live up to the definition that others have given them.

They think and act the same as they did when they were still young, purely to maintain the "definition" of who they are and what is expected of them.

But to be fulfilled, you live in the present.

Who you were yesterday can change today. What you used to do can be changed by tomorrow. This is how one grows and fully experiences life.

Of course, this shall come with safety and rational thinking in being undefined and unpredictable.

The more others say:

"You are unpredictable."

"You are hard to read."

"I don't know how to define you."

You are on the right track.

You are likely living your life with no confinements that are unreasonably set by others, so they can either control or manipulate you whenever they feel like.

Being hard to be defined signals you experience your life to the full as much as you can, and in so doing, you can easily identify your potential and reach places where others fail even to conceive in their minds, simply because they have allowed others to confine them in a box they have nothing to do with.